Sophomore Slump - I gave up.

The expression "sophomore slump"—used to characterize a student's scholastic drop during their second year of college or an athlete's or artist's struggle to measure up after a successful debut performance—is probably already familiar to you.

And although running into trouble in your second year of college is common, one

could feel isolated in this circumstance.

This blog will show you that you are not alone.

Here’s my story.

I started college as a double degree student; majoring in Communications and Marketing. My first two semesters were the highlight of my college life. I joined a few clubs and spent my free time participating in workshops and doing advanced reading with my friends.

Then, the pandemic started.

At first, it was a breath of fresh air.

I got to spend a few months just relaxing and having quality time with my family after a physically-demanding school year (spending over 14 hours on campus).

Then, the gruesome online classes began. This was the beginning of my villain origin story (lol).

Spending 20 hours a day in front of a computer glued to my seat took a toll on me.

My mental health worsened and I had to drop one of my courses in order to survive.

I wasn’t allowed to take a semester off, even if I desperately needed it. I wasn’t able to perform my best for the following academic year which made me more disappointed with myself.

My college life was not the grandiose adventure I’d envisioned in the past. It was an unexpected slap in the face with reality and the bruises have not yet fully healed - even after months of therapy.

It's important for sophomores to understand that, despite all the pressure, it's normal to feel a little lost and uncertain, especially regarding their majors. Before making any other choices, some students switch their majors several times. College is a time to keep moving forward while you're still a young adult.

I still occasionally feel uncertain about the future and get anxious. But now I can deal with such emotions more easily and get over them. I am aware that I have plenty of time to consider my alternatives and pursue my interests. More expectations are soon to arise, and relationships will continue to evolve.

Even though my experience is very different from yours, I still want to offer you encouragement as you start your sophomore year. There is a "sophomore slump," but it is not set in stone. There will be plenty of chances to make adjustments and choose fresh directions.

Find someone to chat to if you're feeling sad and out of place. Your second year of college doesn't have to be marked by the sophomore slump. Break the mold; make the year your own..

Good luck to you Sophomores! Don't allow even a single second slip by.

Your Unigirl,

Alexi